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Hi Rita,
I’m so sorry to hear that it’s been such a challenging weekend for you.
I know how exhausting and frustrating this must feel, and you’re doing an incredible job trying to navigate through it all.
One possible reason things were especially difficult this weekend—particularly at bedtime—could be the vaccines she received on Friday. It’s common for babies to be tired and a bit drowsy on the day of the vaccines, but then become unsettled afterward. This is often due to pain or tenderness at the injection site that can last for a few days. Additionally, some vaccines can cause a mild fever, both of which can make it harder for babies to settle and sleep.
The fact that she didn’t settle even after a feed on Saturday and Sunday nights—when she typically would—suggests that discomfort might be playing a role in her sleep challenges.
Did the nurse or doctor mention any pain relief options after the vaccines, or was she already having some pain relief at the time? If not, it might be worth checking in with your doctor to see if this could help make her more comfortable, especially if she’s still unsettled over the next few days.
Since she may be experiencing some discomfort, you might consider pausing the sleep routine for a few days and resuming it once she’s likely feeling better. Or, if you prefer, you can continue with the routine, knowing she might just need extra comfort and support right now.
It’s possible that the 6 hours of daytime sleep could be affecting how much sleep she needs at night. To help me get a clearer picture, could you jot down her daytime routine for me? Specifically:
- What time does she wake up? (From what you’ve written, it sounds like around 6:30 am.)
- When are her naps, how long do they last, and where is she sleeping for them?
- What time do you start bedtime? (The time you lay her down or begin settling her.)
- When does she fall into a deep sleep at night?
This will help us figure out if any adjustments might ease things for both of you.
Thanks,
Emma